Like. Never again. I serve up dinner, we eat, and then we leave right away.A couple days later he chews his aunt out on the phone and we haven’t seen them since. Had a friend years ago who was a bit self centered & prone to stretching the truth, but he was a nice enough guy with a rough backstory and my friend group liked him, so I cut him a lot of slack. I said no. I then got pissed at him for getting pissed at me. Wanna screw? I lived next to someone just like this. Then they say ‘but hey, [me] is gonna stay late tonight again, let’s leave it to her, she always does the cleaning anyways’, followed by laughing and some b****** about me. Can do whatever he sets his mind to. Done.. From that moment on i realized i need to grow up fast & depend on myself. No more financial and emotional abuse. That day was both painful and a catalyst for change that I’m deeply grateful for finally realizing. comments. In some cases even her own family, no one believed her, accused her of lying. The entire staff said “f*** that.”Now - unless it’s a literal life and death situation - if we can’t fit someone in before closing and they didn’t have an appointment it’s a firm no. I well and truly thought the community would help me out if I needed it and reached out, as I had seen so many other times in the 15 years I had lived there. I had a 7′ couch I didn’t want to move, so I put it out on the front lawn with a sign that said “FREE.” A guy came by and said, “I’ll be right back to pick this up.” I changed the sign to “SOLD” and he never came back. They’re pretty religious and we’re pretty gay, so I’m always a touch hesitant spending a lot of time, but it was Christmas and family and yadda yadda yadda.We get there and I ask if they need any help with anything, just general good guest stuff. He said he needed somewhere to stay "for the night" till his parents cooled off.I said you can stay a week if you want but more than that and you'll need to pay me rent (he made pretty good money, more than me even). To complete the subscription process, please click the link in the email we just sent you. Lukas is a photo editor at Bored Panda. Worked in Baton Rouge for a decade (1999-2009) and would regularly give the homeless I saw around town – generously if I can say that without being a douche bag. Got fired from his job, ate all the food I'd buy and make excuses as to why he hadn't found another job yet. Hello everyone this is Dan from The Pimping Greymon channel...This is a let's play channel. After getting lots of heat from fam i just forced myself to pick any half decent place. She has contacted me every few weeks since then, always with a new reason why she needs more money (and when I offer food and clothing resources, she refuses it). She wouldn't walk the 4 blocks then reported me to the group and got me kicked out for "not following through". She went full [beggar mode] on me and said she was looking for a more elaborate one with more things to do. People who I thought were friends disappeared. Run fast and far. EVERYONE suddenly wanted me to help move them. I gave you a place to stay and you are mad at me??? Only one person out of 8 actually wrote a review. The day I realized that no one wanted to help me in return. I used to help people plan their trips to Japan. You Done. Run fast and far. Immediately this new manager starts firing people for bulls**** reasons and hiring people from her old job to replace them. Had a new manager come in to my former place of employment. Well Done Guys. We wake up bc there is a couple walking down the road arguing. Answer 1 of 4: Didn't know planning a vacation would be so difficult. And when they wanted poster x4, I wanted money - ghosted. Currently I am enjoying living alone and have made it clear houseguests are not welcome. But when the same people consistently ask for help or money or what have you, without actually wanting to help you when you need it, or just hang out or be friendly in general, it's a huge red flag. It was a f****** nightmare and I never got a dime nor food or even some beers. I say "well then you gotta go"He asked if he could stay another week. Your account is not active. He handed me a $10 bill and was back in 15 minutes with a pickup truck. I was working at a fast food place when I was a student. His parents aren’t letting him come back. I drive a pickup so even offered to deliver it. It was exhausting and demoralizing- we did more than we had to for them after already working a full day because a desire to help is why we’re all here in the first place, and they responded by saying our time was worth nothing and we suck. Somebody put one one of those “free items” sites on Facebook that she needed an outdoor playscape thing for her kids who were going crazy during quarantine. And while you’re down there, why not also share some of your stories, if you have any! I never talked to him after that. The dude thanked me, then proceeded to beat the crap out of the dog (telling me to mind my own business when I tried to get him to stop), carried him by his collar to a 5 ft short chain in a muddy patch with a crappy broken 3-wall “doghouse” where im guessing the dog spent 100% of it’s time. One day I found a puppy, dirty, hungry, and just scared and lost. Hell, at least someone was paying you attention! Discover (and save!) I made their itineraries, wrote a tailored culture guide for each, booked their hotels / restaurants, gave them recommendations, etc. I like to host and I have friends staying over pretty regularly — back then, I usually had one or two people spending the night on any given day. People like this make me mad. The girl is closer than the guy. And while you’re down there, why not also share some of your stories, if you have any! Like the giant wooden ones. I was only 18 at the time and felt bad because she had kids, it was right around the holidays and was I just wanted to help however I could and be a good person in life. I unfortunately overstayed my welcome. He leaves, I think it went remarkably well and head out to work…and it turns out that he broke in while I was away at work and stole a bunch of my sister’s things because “his birthday was coming up and neither of us even thought to get him a gift.” It takes a special person to rationalize how burglarizing someone is really their fault. No need to help those that can’t even do the basic to help themselves. I’m in this profession to help others and I still work late for real emergencies when they happen or if an appointment runs longer than expected, but I’m done sacrificing my personal time for entitled people who don’t actually need it. But we are still close & i made sure to repay her properly. A “friend” of mine borrowed a game off me once. It’s Done. your own Pins on Pinterest They weren't happy when they finally realized what that meant. I ended up with a fractured sternum, yeah F*** that s***, never again. They hurt those who really need help by hardening hearts and making people cynical. I changed the sign to "SOLD" and he never came back. Please provide your email address and we will send your password shortly. I changed the sign to "SOLD" and he never came back.Hauled the couch back out to the front lawn next week with a "FREE" sign. F*** 'em. But no. We were asleep one night with window open. I serve up dinner, we eat, and then we leave right away. His friendship was worth less than the value of a cheap game. I considered them good friends, and it was the least I could do, right? He said he needed somewhere to stay "for the night" till his parents cooled off. Like the giant wooden ones. In freshman year of college, my friend of about two years got kicked out of his parents house. Our website is made possible by displaying online advertisements to our visitors. He gave me a sob story of why he was getting kicked out of his communal house and I offered to let him stay with me because I live alone and have my own place. I stole the dog 3 weeks later. I used to help people plan their trips to Japan. He leaves, I think it went remarkably well and head out to work...and it turns out that he broke in while I was away at work and stole a bunch of my sister's things because "his birthday was coming up and neither of us even thought to get him a gift." In previous years we would buy a whole turkey dinner from somewhere so no one (me) had to cook, so imagine my surprise when my husband and I walk in, my mother walks out of the kitchen, hands me a spoon and says, “Good, you’re finally here”, and goes to sit down in the living room. You should’ve walked away.” As she begins to turn away I grab her shoulder which makes her turn around and I knock the books out of her hand and say “now that was on purpose” and I walked away whilst she was stood there speechless. I gave him a good meal, and some love, and went to drop him off at the address on his collar. I’m just carrying on. Totally ended the friendship. Explore our collection of motivational and famous quotes by authors you know and love. Invited friends over, played music so loud the cops got called and when he was supposed to pick me up from the airport, he was wasted at someone's house at 8 am. So I follow her to the kitchen and nothing has been done. Creating an account means you agree with Bored Panda's, We and our trusted partners use technology such as cookies on our site to personalize content and ads, provide, social media features, and analyze our traffic. Hauled the couch back out to the front lawn next week with a “FREE” sign. We unloaded what we had and just left. But when the same people consistently ask for help or money or what have you, without actually wanting to help you when you need it, or just hang out or be friendly in general, it’s a huge red flag. People are nicer when they've got skin in the game. Another guy came by and said he wanted the couch. I had seen it and participated in it. I made their itineraries, wrote a tailored culture guide for each, booked their hotels / restaurants, gave them recommendations, etc. I've been grateful to a few people who told me off. Basically, I was the help and should have realized that, so any feelings I had about that were my fault. I’m going blind, people, not deaf.) I am Done with this man. So I was just walking down the corridor when this girl carrying a bunch of books bumped into me and she dropped the books (like you see in a movie) so I apologise because I wasn’t really paying attention and I bend down and get the books for her and hand them to her expecting at least a small thanks. I'm going blind, people, not deaf.) Had a newish neighbor ask if he could borrow our lawn mower....sure. I ended up with a fractured sternum, yeah F*** that s***, never again. My partner was out in the yard with his cousins playing on a frozen pond, his aunt and uncle were drinking in their living room, and I’m pretty well being treated as the help for the next few hours. he wouldn't replace the gas ect. Literally expected me to come and cook them the whole Christmas dinner. List something for Free and get totally messed around, even really late night, very early morning messages about it too. I owe it to her kindness. 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